A Father

     Hello guys, this is Aditya Rai presenting an interesting topic in front of you; "A FATHER".

First of all a very big sorry to all the people who loves to read my blog because I was unable to write any type blog of because of some reasons and my hectic schedule.

  

"Dads hold our hands for a little while and hold out hearts forever"

As we know that father is the most important person in our life but the most under rated though. A father is the one who expect his children to be a person better and more successful. Actually we can't understand the importance of a father until and unless we haven't became a father or lost the one that's why I'm calling him under rated. If a  mother is the definition of love, a father is the definition of care. He is the first love of a daughter and a super hero of a son who always manages to keep his children happy; Keeping it short, A father is the most perfect creation or can say that a masterpiece of nature. He is not the one who always express his love for their children by words but by their actions. His mare presence fill joy in our life. In the absence of a mother, the home feels empty but in the absence of a father the life feels empty..

Here I'm going to show you the importance of a father through a story where there was a man of a middle class family who has a wife and 2 children; a daughter and a son. It was supposed to be a happy family. The father of the children was a hard worker, intelligent and a person of great perception but also a person of poor health who always suffers from some health issue which one day turned into an incurable disease "Pancreatic Cancer". He and his family had never imagined of which. It was the morning of the cold winters when he was getting ready for his school as usual. He has always been suffered from some gastric problem also. But this time it was severe and the family was considering it normal at that time but after 1-2 days when it was not seeming normal as it made him ill,they went to the doctor. At that time, doctor prescribed him some tests but even after taking complete treatment he was not feeling well; again they went to another doctor it was infection in his liver according to him, again same result, he didn't get the relief. Somehow reading his symptoms a doctor suggested him of a cancer hospital in Mumbai where he was asked for a MRI scan from which it was confirmed that he has a tumor in his pancreas. After that he was called for a biospy test which is used to determine the cancer cell in lump. After the report when doctors called him they were confused that it may be cancer or it may not. Then they said he is suffering from most dangerous type of cancer which is incurable and no matter how much you spend you are not going to live more than three and half months. But he was not aware of this condition neither his family and his children who are just 19 and 21 studying in different cities away from him. He started meditating and improvement had been seen in his health but was not up to the mark the way they were expected because medicines were not working. Spent all his savings in his treatment still didn't cured. But, even having that much problem his children didn't had to compromise anywhere. Their needs were fulfilled. Even in that hard situation where the father was suffering from cancer the children were get loved and cared the way they used to be.But there a day comes when he come to know that he had few days left.. He than started ignoring their children,stopped talking to them who used to call them 4-5 times a day before. Children were tensed that their father was not talking to them the way he used to but they were not aware that cancer stages of their father begins and he was falling ill even though he was getting the treatment. Surely the reason for ignoring or not talking to the children was he just want to get their children detached from him because he didn't want his children to suffer from the kind of trouble every child suffer when he/she lost his/her father or mother. A day came when  everyone was supposing that he will get cured, He died. Left his children,wife and other family member. But made the children enough strong that they can fight and can live in this cruel world where people think too much and feel too little by his teaching and experience he shared to them.

Now, all of you are wandering what am I want to show you from this story. This story tells us no matter what happens your father will going to help you out in every situation. In his presence you don't have to struggle. He always manages to keep every member of the family happy not by words but by actions. He doesn't express the love for his children but he is the one who love them the most. Feel his efforts that how much he is doing or sacrificing for you not his scolding. Actually his scolding possesses the most perfect knowledge which you can't find in any book or speech but only in his experiences. He lambast you not because he has a problem with you but because he want to make you an example for other. He is a super hero not because he manages his family or make them happy but because his power lies even in his absence-The power of his wisdom and teachings which will going to help you everywhere. Love your father and respect him, he deserve it from you. Support him in every situation because he is also getting old.Most importantly care for him because he was the one who cared for you unconditionally when you needed it the most.

A father is neither an anchor to hold us back nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way.

Hope this blog will help you. Thank You. 

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